Don’t focus on the Change, be the Change.

An amazing email popped into my inbox this morning and I felt compelled to read it. The message inside it hit me like a bolt and made complete and utter sense to me. So much so that I have to share it will you now.

Now I am a firm believer that messages find you at the right time and that even though you probably get a million and one emails a day if you are meant to read an email you will.

This week my Social Media focus has been all about getting what you want. Understanding the power of manifesting and increasing your vibration to allow amazing things to happen and today my posts have all been about focusing on what you want.

This is often lost on many people and without all good intentions many of us spend our time focusing on what we don’t have or on what we don’t want.

  • Each month I tried to fall pregnant I focused on how it wasn’t happening
  • When I first started my business I focused on worrying about making money
  • When working on letting go of my past I worried about what others would think of me.



Unbeknown to myself I was lovingly attracting all the things I was worrying about as I spent my valuable time and energy focusing on the wrong stuff!!!!!

As Mastin Kipp says:

“If there’s a goal that you’ve set for yourself and it hasn’t happened yet, there’s only one reason… You haven’t changed your behavior to match the goal.”


But what does that really mean??

When you dream big and have that moment of true discovery and unlock your calling, your passions or your desires to make more with you life, you find yourself being open to setting new goals.

Launch a Master class, Go travelling, Get promoted, speak at a live event, whatever it may be

You get excited, write it down, create a dream board, share it with your friends and family, visualize it happening, but nothing happens!

Now while these are all very important steps they is one HUGE step that is being totally overlooked and as a result your goal isn’t going to happen. I have seen this time and time again with my clients.

What’s am I missing?

When you set new goals and want to achieve greatness you’ve got to match the correct thoughts, emotions, beliefs and behaviors with the goal that you want to achieve.


You have to make the changes!!!!!


If you want to launch a Master class…. you can’t rely on the thoughts, emotions, beliefs and behaviors that have stopped you starting a business.

If you want to earn more money, you can’t rely on the thoughts, emotions, beliefs and behaviors that kept you broke.


You have to be willing to change your thoughts, emotions, beliefs and behaviors first.


If you always do what you have always done you will always get what you have always got – FACT!!!!


If you don’t make changes, how can you expect your life to change?


“If you want a greater reward from life, you’ve got to become more, believe more, act in a way that is congruent with the new goal you’ve set – and this new way of being must be how you show up most of the time.” Mastin Kipp


‘The truth is when you demand more out of life, you are actually demanding more from yourself.

If you want to achieve the goals you want and create the life of your dreams you need to overcome all the internal blocks that have prevented you from achieving it in the first place. You need to break that cycle and change your approach.

This means accepting there will be setback, challenging time, and obstacles along the way. It means keeping focused, trying new approaches, never giving up.

That isn’t you being negative, it is accepting that everyone encounters setback somewhere along the way and in order to become more, you need to overcome more.

When you use each setback as a chance to reflect and review and not as a failure, then the magic happens.

Make it your aim to keep your goals fixed firmly in your mind by focusing on the things you WANT.

  • Focus on what you want
  • Focus overcoming whatever is in the way.
  • Write your goals down every morning and evening.
  • Visualize your success.
  • Allow yourself to be open and ready to receive
  • Focus on clearing away all the obstacles and give it your all each day.

Instead of focusing on what you can’t control (like other people, the government, the economy, the media, social media, etc.) – focus on what you can control.

  • Start focusing on what you want
  •  Get control on what you can change
  •  Make plans that move you forward

Focus on success.

  • You get to control who you share your goals with
  • You get to control what actions you take
  • You get control on whether you give up or keep going

Keep Going.

  • Recognize it is your job to solve problems
  • It’s your job to learn from past mistakes
  • It is your job to grow and develop
  • It is your job to not let your past and limiting beliefs hold you back
  • It is your job to work on overcoming these blocks and pushing past fear.


Make every day count by grabbing opportunities by the hand and become the person you want to be.

Be grateful

Be happy

Be energized

Be focused

Have fun

But above all MAKE CHANGES


Being open to change allows us to be fluid, to keep going and to not give up. It allows us to adapt our approach, think differently, and be flexible.

It allows to us be SUCCESSFUL.

Love as Always


P.S.  If you are ready to commit to change and are willing to show up and be accountable I would love to hear from you. Investing in yourself is the best thing you can do – trust me, I know. Working with my coach saved my life and opened me up to a world of opportunities, happiness and abundance. It can help you too……. Book your FREE 30 min Discovery Call and see whats on offer. xxx